Lately, I've noticed
that my
anger
and frustration level at work has amped up, and I am 'acting' out a lot more at
work lately. Instead of simply
looking
at a
challenge
at hand, and approaching it in a methodical way, I will start to go into
frustration and swear at my
computer.
So why am I frustrated in the first place?
The reason on the
surface is that my workload seems to be overwhelming
right
now, and when things don't work out perfectly, and I'm required to put some
extra effort in, I start to get frustrated. My
expectation
is that I have enough
resources
at my disposable to delegate to, so that all of the work to keep my projects
running smoothly. And 'running' is the operative
word here,
because it's like I'm always running around and 'reacting' to various things
that come up.
And the source of my
frustration is that last minute things do come up, all of the
time,
because that is the nature of the work I do. There are always
unpredictable
requests or scenarios that
present
themselves, and I always feel that I can't keep up with them all. And the
reason I can't keep up with them, is because I believe that my workload is too
much.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to place the strain of
stress and
frustration on my
physical
body,
in the realization that the
anxiety
I accept and allow is slowly killing myself.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to get frustrated in the belief that
I don't have the
support
of resources to
support
my projects.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to 'rush' on tasks and try to get away
with doing the minimal due diligence on something, compromising quality, so
that I could free up
time to
get everything done, instead of
accepting
and allowing myself to see/realize/
understand that 'rushing'
will eventually cause mistakes and extra
time and costs to my
project due to re-work.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame my 'leaders' for my rushed
state, in the excuse that they did not provide enough resources for me to
support my work.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to use excuses and justifications as
well as the blame of others for the
anxiety
and
stressed
state that I accept and allow.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to take self-responsibility for the
frustrated and angry state that I have acted out.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand that the
frustration and
anger
shows that I am not being
self-honest
in the moment about the things that I am frustrated and angry about.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand that when
I go into frustration and
anger,
I make it a habit, and not only
abuse
my
body in
the stress that undergo, but also make a
decision
to be self-dishonest in the moment and
separate
myself from that in which I am projecting my frustration and
anger
towards.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand that when
I go into frustration, nothing will actually
change, as I will not
be able to
communicate
to others to
help
support the
changes
neccessary, that I would like to see.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand that
frustration and
anger
only distracts me from the task at hand is no means to actually find a
solution or get the work
done that I need to get done.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to create a habit of frustration and
anger
towards the 'workload' and 'processes' within my job, instead of accepting and
allowing myself to complete the tasks at hand, or delegate them effectively in
the moment in
clarity.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to go into
thoughts
of all of the outstanding tasks that I have to do, and then get
anxious
or feel
bad
that I have not full-filled my
commitment,
instead of accepting and allowing myself to take the
time
to plan how each of these tasks will be completed through time management or
delegation.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to delegate effectively in my role.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to go into
guilt
in delegating tasks to others in the belief that they do not have the capacity
to take on these tasks because they are so busy themselves.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand that anger
and frustration at work is an action that has become a habit, in which I
secretly
enjoy
because 'it feels
good'
to be angry.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself
judge
those that go into anger as more than.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that those that go into
anger are more powerful than others, instead of accepting and allowing myself
to see/realize/understand that those that go into anger, actually become
powerless to their own
possession
of anger by
abdicating
their self-directive principle and
living a
life
through the
choices
made by the anger and frustration character.
I forgive myself
that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand the long
term
consequences
of constant anger towards something or someone and the detrimental effects it
has on my
body and this
world.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to create myself as an angry and
frustrated person at work, instead of accepting and allowing myself to instead
stay in the moment in what is physically and work out a solution that benefits
everyone.
I forgive myself
that I have accepted and allowed myself to only leave a job when I get angry
and frustrated at it for some reason, showing to myself that I am choosing my
destiny, by making the
choice
to go into anger, at that point abdicating my self -directive principle to do
what is best for all.
When and as I see
myself go into anger/frustration or any kind of
thoughts
about work and something that I
imagine
to be the source of my anger, I stop and I
breathe
and I remain in the moment in the
expression
of
who I am
until the anger and frustration subsides. - I see/realize/understand that that
in which I 'believe' is the source of my anger, whether it be my manager or a
process or not having enough resources, is actually just a
distraction to take me
away from the actual source of the anger, which is my own self-dishonesty. I
see/realize/understand that when I participate in this
stressful
anger and frustration, I am damaging my body and effecting those around me
through my subtle physical actions and
sound.
I see/realize/understand that when I am in anger, I can't actually see the
source of the anger and come up with a solution that is best for all in the
moment. I see/realize/understand that by going in anger and frustration, I am
creating a habit of going into it, that has become automated within myself that
will only solidify as a character, and ultimately my destiny over time. I
see/realize/understand that I have the
choice
as the self-directive principle to stop the anger and frustration in the moment
and do the work that needs to be done in an effective way, either doing it
myself or delegating. I see/realize/understand that when I go into anger and
frustration, I am making the choice in the moment to
give
up my self-directive principle, having my
life now be
dictated through the character that I create as anger. - I
commit
myself to stop the habit of anger and frustration through stopping it in the
moment by following my
breathe
and coming back to
here,
so that I can take back my self-directive principle in what is best for myself
and all. I commit myself to investigate myself to find out the source of my
anger and frustration within my own self-dishonest nature. I commit myself to
stop the
abuse
towards myself and others through my anger and frustration,
avoiding
longterm
consequences
and
living
what is best for all.